There are a number of men who have suffered from delayed ejaculation at one time or another. Delayed ejaculation is when it takes you a long time to reach orgasm. Some men who suffer from this common syndrome report that it takes them up to an hour to reach orgasm.
There are many reasons why a man may suffer from delayed ejaculation. The most common are psychological. Men who worry about their penis size or performance may be unable to relax enough to reach orgasm during sex, making both individuals uncomfortable.
Being totally relaxed and comfortable with your body is essential to enjoy sex with any partner. Nothing is more attractive to a woman than a man with confidence. Confidence in the bedroom will make you very appealing to the opposite sex, no matter what the size of your penis.
Another reason for delayed ejaculation can be masturbation. A man who is more used to masturbation to reach orgasm than intercourse may use a fast motion of his hand to stimulate himself and be unable to get the same fast rhythm with intercourse. If this is the case, there are different masturbation techniques you can try to allow you to become more comfortable with slower rhythm.
Other reasons why men experience delayed ejaculation involve the use of alcohol or drugs. Some medications, such as anti-depressants, can also be the cause for this frustrating problem.
If you find that you are having a difficult time reaching orgasm within a satisfactory time period, you may be suffering from delayed ejaculation. To alleviate this problem, try the following:
- Eliminate illicit drugs or alcohol prior to sex;
- Make sure that you are totally relaxed and aroused prior to sex;
- When masturbating, practice a slower technique more similar to intercourse.
While delayed ejaculation is a common problem in men, particularly in older men, it is rarely cause for concern. Other conditions, such as stroke and pelvic surgery can also cause this condition in men. If you are concerned about delayed ejaculation, do not hesitate to speak to your physician.