All the weeks of longing for her have finally led to her saying “yes.” This is something that you have waited for and wanted since you met her. This is not the time to let performance anxiety creep up on you.
Most men suffer from a bit of performance anxiety the first time they are with a woman that they really like. This can prove to be embarrassing if a man allows issues such as penis size and his abilities as a lover interfere with his lovemaking. Women are far less interested in penis size than men. Most women are more concerned with affection and foreplay than penetration.
You can easily eliminate any performance anxiety by taking a deep breath, relaxing and allowing the encounter to move along at a leisurely and comfortable pace. Instead of focusing on yourself and how well you are going to perform, focus on her and what you can do to please her.
Women like to be touched. They like to be held. They like to be kissed. Be affectionate and touch her from head to toe. Kiss her, whisper in her ear and tell her how much you have wanted her.
Kiss her lips, neck and continue to move lower. Women enjoy foreplay more than you can imagine and tend to need this before becoming sexually aroused. The more foreplay, the greater her sexual arousal and the more she will enjoy herself, thus, allowing you to enjoy yourself.
Taking the focus away from yourself and putting it on to her will not only please her, but will also keep you from suffering performance anxiety. Women are more apt to consider you a great lover if you pay more attention to them than yourself.
The first time you are with a new woman is exciting and should not be something to dread. Relax, do not think about yourself, pay close attention to your lover and do not allow performance anxiety spoil the magic of the moment.